Today, for the first time in my entire life, I set my eldest son free! No, he's not getting married or anything like that! He's only 13. Actually, he joined a bowling tournament for 'special' kids organized by his school. It's his first year in a special class and so far, I'm pretty pleased with his development. He's made tremendous progress.
You see, I never let him go out on his own or follow his friends because of his condition. I'm very protective of him, sometimes he gets too excited and gets lost in his own thoughts. So, I took a brave decision today to allow him to join his class (supervised by his teachers of course) in a bowling competition at a local bowling alley near our place.
I was worried sick. I know I need to loosen up a little bit more and I have to allow him to mingle and experience new things. I know I'm paranoid but with too much crime happening these days, you can't really blame people for being extra cautious ya.
Anyway, I went to see the tournament (parents were invited by the way... I wasn't sneaking!) and see for myself how he'd fare in a game he never even played before. But that was not to be, the moment I walked into the bowling arena, he just happened to look behind and saw me. And he shouted with glee, telling his friends that his mommy was there. Yeah, so much for trying to be discreet. I felt as if I was some celebrity when almost every head was turned towards me. LOL!
My son had a great time, he had a ball! I never saw such enthusiasm in him before. Never mind that he only managed to throw 3 decent throws, the rest fell in the drain... hahaha. I'll let the pictures tell their stories...
Awwww.... I'm proud of you Nessa! I know some mothers who are soooo overly protective of their kids and they're not even 'special'! Furthermore, this particular kid I'm talking about is 15!! Thumbs up to u!! :D
ReplyDeleteCongrats on letting you son loose :D I'm sure it would do a world of good for him and judging by the pictures, he seemed to have had a great time even.
ReplyDeleteIt's not easy being a mother, yes? But looks like you do a great job :) Keep it up and here's to more stories about your son ...
Consolation prize is better than nothing! The last time I went for bowling, I broke a few nails! >.<
ReplyDeleteYou're a very good mother. You set him free!!! :-)
Wow Nessa, I can practically see you beaming at your sons independence:D
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you're pretty proud of him too:D
You're a really good mom. And your son is lucky to have a mom like you.
Cheers girl :)
Syura - Ya, I'm proud of me too... cewahh :D I'm glad I did what I did, it wasn't easy though. I felt guilt as soon as I said 'yes', worrying should things go wrong. I should stop thinking of the worst.
ReplyDeleteI think I read about that kid. Tragic incident...
MD - Haha, somehow that sounds funny! He sure had a great time with his school buddies :D Thanks MD. Appreciate it.
ReplyDeleteCindy - He probably did better than I ever did. I can't bowl! :( I feel weird throwing that heavy ball... coz I just can't seem to throw it like the pros do. They've got style when they throw.
ReplyDeleteI guess I have to start learning to set my boys free... eventually they'll grow up and have families of their own... aiyoh, sedih pulak ni :*(
Andy J - It sure was a proud moment for me :) For any mother with special kids, I know it's a great achievement for their kids.
ReplyDeleteI was surprised as some of them even got strikes. And they're all pretty well behaved, it was an eye-opener.
When I see him on this pic, I suddenly feel like missing him... cos we used to spend time at home watching TV and I will never forget how he reacts when he is over-excited! (Always put a smile on my face.. :)
ReplyDeleteI am happy to see he is doing well sis. Proud of you sis!
Your son looks quite mature.
ReplyDeleteYay! That is something! Can see that he's enjoying himself!
ReplyDeleteAnn - Oh, he still does that! And he talks to himself a lot too... it bugs me but the doc said it's harmless. I'm proud of him too :)
ReplyDeleteJam - Yeah, he's taller than me... and is still growing! Physically he's normal. But if you ask him to do things that requires thinking, he's not capable of that yet. He's like a child of 6 years.
ReplyDeleteEmila - The place was a riot! All the kids had a great time. Their beaming faces showed it all :D
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